Dear Sexpert,
I’ve heard that although alcohol decreases sexual inhibitions, the physiological effects of alcohol may negatively impact sex. What are the effects of alcohol on the body that could affect my sexual experiences?
— Frisky While Tipsy
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The following article is an interview with Jean Semelfort, the director of the Men’s Allied Voices for a Respectful & Inclusive Community (MAVRIC) Project, with questions concerning healthy vs. toxic masculinity, particularly on Princeton’s campus.
Dear Sexpert,
One of my classmates keeps on sending me inappropriate, sexual text messages that I don’t feel comfortable about. What should I do? I am worried that things would be really awkward between us if I confront them.
–Unhappy Receiver
Dear Sexpert,
I’ve been hearing some of my friends talk about doing Kegel exercises, but I’m not exactly sure what they are talking about. What is a Kegel? And how do I do one?
–Kegel Kurious
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Dear Sexpert,
I am a sexually active homosexual male and I have never had an orgasm although I have ejaculated many times. My boyfriend has an orgasm almost every time we have sex, but I never do. He thinks it might be because I am stressed from taking six classes this semester and have trouble winding down. Is there something wrong with me?
–MissingOutOnTheBigO
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Dear Sexpert,
I have had several sexual partners since I became sexually active in high school. I had never experienced discomfort during sex, but recently I noticed that when I have sex with my current boyfriend, wherever my skin comes into contact with his semen, it turns red and becomes irritated. After intercourse, my vagina is red and puffy too, not just my skin. We can’t use condoms because I have a severe latex allergy, but I am on birth control, so we aren’t worried about unplanned pregnancy. Could I be allergic to his semen too?
–HotAndBotheredDownThere
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Dear Sexpert,
My boyfriend watches a lot of porn. A lot of porn. He watches porn every night before he falls asleep, even the nights that we have sex; he often wants to watch it to get in the mood before we have sex. It makes me uncomfortable and I have tried to talk to him about it, but he says I’m being controlling and just don’t understand. But I don’t feel like I can be sexually or emotionally intimate with someone who would rather watch porn than be with me.
–TheRealGirl
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Dear Sexpert,
Help! I think I have a UTI – when I woke up this morning and went to the bathroom, there was a burning sensation when I peed, and now I feel like I have to go to the bathroom constantly. What can I do to treat the UTI I have now and prevent getting one again in the future?
–Toilet Tormented
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Dear Sexpert,
I started a relationship a few weeks ago and I am having a lot of fun with my partner. They’ve been asking me to send “sexy” pictures of myself and I have sent a few. But after reading some articles about sexting, I am not too sure how I feel. Should I be worried? I don’t know how to bring it up since my relationship is pretty new.
—Uncertain Sexter
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The following article is an interview with Margaret Nachtigall, MD, an obstetrician and gynecologist based in New York City. She is a Princeton alumna who was a biology major here. She went to medical school at NYU and did her residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at NYU and then a fellowship at Yale in Reproductive Endocrinology. She was kind enough to answer some questions relevant to college students!
Dear Sexpert,
My relationship with my partner has become pretty serious and we’re ready to be more intimate with each other. While I’m interested in experimenting with oral sex, I’m still not ready to do more than that. How do I explain this to my partner without offending them?
—Expanding My Horizons
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Dear Sexpert,
I have been looking for feminine hygiene products that are more eco-friendly, and saw a bunch of posts online about using something called the Diva Cup to decrease my carbon footprint. Can you tell me how it works? Is it safe and cheap to use, and is it all that much better for the environment?
–Thrifty Diva
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Dear Sexpert,
I am currently taking birth control because I am sexually active, and the pill has been my contraceptive of choice since I started. However, I have heard of a lot of women rushing to get IUDs instead because they are worried that a repeal of the ACA will make birth control too expensive. That way, they can charge the IUD to their insurance now and avoid purchasing new contraceptives for the next few years. Is this a good idea? Can I get an IUD at McCosh?
–Concerned (Birth) Controller
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Dear Sexpert,
I was hoping you could provide some clarity regarding reproductive health. Princeton is far from my hometown, so I don’t know how often I’ll be able to visit my gynecologist anymore… and I know I’m getting to the age where I should be getting things like pap smears and other screenings regularly. Can I get these at Princeton? And can you explain what should be on my radar?
–Paranoid about Prevention
Continue reading Paranoid about Prevention: When should I start getting screenings?
